Paddy Johnson's advice column addresses an artist-curator who feels exploited by friends constantly asking for exhibition opportunities. The writer describes the exhaustion of navigating transactional relationships where artists make brash requests, such as demanding inclusion in shows or free professional advice. Johnson distinguishes between genuine friends and work colleagues, noting that inappropriate asks often misread the relationship's terms and can damage friendships when a curator must say no.
This matters because it highlights a pervasive power dynamic in the art world where curators, gallerists, and consultants face relentless, ego-driven solicitations from artists seeking visibility and validation. The column offers practical guidance on setting boundaries and recognizing that real friendship involves mutual support beyond professional favors, addressing a common but rarely discussed emotional toll on art-world professionals.